Funeral and Legal Estate Terms
Preprinted note cards expressing thanks for thoughtful acts toward the family of the deceased.
A feeling of loss before a death occurs.
The meeting between a funeral director and family and friends of a recently deceased person to decide on a plan for a final resting place and services or gatherings to acknowledge the death.
Attorney in Fact
Any person granted the power of attorney.
A person appointed by an individual to carry out their wishes at the time of their death.
Form Official document allowing someone other than the next of kin to be in charge of funeral arrangements at the time of their death.
Recipient of the proceeds of a will or insurance policy.
Gift of property made in a will.
Donation of the whole body after death for medical research and education. Often the recipient organization will cover the cost of cremation or burial once the body has served its medical purpose and is returned to the family for interment.
Placing human remains in the ground.
Required by the State of Connecticut for human remains to be buried or cremated.
Container designed for holding human remains. Usually made of wood, metal or fiberglass.
Structure or building at a cemetery designed for housing cremation urns.
Final portion of the funeral service when the deceased is interred or entombed.
Regulated process using intense heat in a chamber to burn human remains.
Chamber in a mausoleum that holds a casket and human remains.
Legal document signed by a medical professional certifying the death of an individual.
Cremation without services of any kind. In Connecticut a signed permit and examination by a medical examiner or coroner and a 48 hour waiting period are required.
Refers to any manner in which remains will be finally taken care of including burial, entombment or cremation.
Procedure to temporarily preserve a body making it possible to lengthen the time between death and the final disposition. It also sanitizes the body and restores the appearance after a traumatic death or illness.
Casket placed in an above ground crypt in a mausoleum.
Speech given to pay tribute to and memorialize the deceased.
Executor/Executrix or Personal Representative
Person named as the person who administers an estate.
The last process remains go through including burial, cremation, entombment and body donation.
Religious or secular ceremony for the bereaved to say goodbye to the deceased.
A box or receptacle made of concrete or other durable material into which the casket is placed to prevent the ground from shifting or collapsing. Most states do not require it, though most cemeteries do. Also see vault or outer burial container.
A method of identifying the occupant of a grave. A permanent grave marker is usually metal or stone and gives the name and date of birth and death.
Also called a committal service, the final portion of the funeral service when the deceased is interred.
Green Burials are natural burial alternatives that often aim to avoid chemical preservatives or traditional metal and wood caskets. Remains may be put directly into the ground, either shrouded in cloth or buried in containers made of easily biodegradable materials, such as cardboard, wicker or pine. Outer burial containers may or may not be required.
A container made to hold cremated remains. It is usually smaller than a traditional urn as remains maybe be split between multiple keepsake urns or a combination of scattering and keepsake urns.
A body is buried without a service of any kind.
The custom of allowing friends and family to visit and possibly view the body of the deceased.
Placing an urn in a niche or grave.
The act of burying a dead body in a grave.
Dying without a legal will.
Trust that has been established during the life of the trustee.
Legal document that details the wishes of an individual concerning his or her medical care, especially with respect to life-sustaining technology and resuscitation.
Card sent to a bereaved family that says the sender has arranged for a Catholic Mass to be said in memory of the deceased.
Building (usually on cemetery grounds) that holds caskets and remains.
Memorial Service or Gathering
Religious or secular ceremony for the bereaved to say goodbye to the deceased without the remains being present.
In a columbarium, an individual chamber where an urn is placed.
Term used in death notices to indicate a person's maiden name.
Opening and Closing Fees
Cemetery fees for the digging and refilling of a grave or preparing a crypt or niche.
Outer Burial Container
Container that surrounds the casket in the grave. Also see vault or grave liner.
Individuals (close family and friends usually) asked to carry the casket.
Perpetual Care Trust Funds
Certain portion of the cost of a burial plot that is set aside in a trust fund for its ongoing care (usually for grounds keeping).
Specific area of ground in a cemetery owned by a family or individual, usually containing two or more graves.
Power of Attorney (POA)
An authorization to act on someone else's behalf in a legal or business matter.
Prearranged Funeral (sometimes called Preneed or Preplanning)
Funeral arrangements completed by an individual prior to his/her death.
Prearranged Funeral Trust
Method by which an individual can prefund their funeral expenses.
Court process of proving the validity of a will.
The vehicular movement of the funeral from the place where the funeral service was held to the cemetery. May also apply to a church funeral where the mourners follow the casket as it is brought into and taken out of the church.
Body of the deceased.
Right of Survivorship
Occurs when a joint property owner has provided for the passing of all property into the hands of the surviving joint owner. This will forego the need for probate.
Person making a valid will.
The study of the effects of death and dying, especially the investigation of ways to lessen the suffering and address the needs of the terminally ill and their survivors.
Title XIX (Nineteen)
1965 federal law that provides for medical assistance to those who cannot afford to pay for it.
In the Greek Orthodox tradition, a prayer service held the evening before the funeral service.
Usually a fund, though it may be made up of property. It is held and managed by one person for the benefit of another (or others).
Container made for holding cremated human remains.
Solid container, usually made of concrete, to keep the casket and its contents clean and dry. Also see outer burial container or grave liner.
In Catholicism, a service held on the eve of the funeral service.
Usually held at the funeral home before or after a funeral service, this is a scheduled time when friends and family pay respects and visit. A casket or urn may or may not be present.
Watch kept over the deceased, sometimes lasting the entire night preceding the funeral. Sometimes used to mean "visitation."
Legal document stating the intentions of the deceased concerning the dispersal of their belongings, the care of their remains and other relevant matters.